What are the big rocks in your life?

What are the big rocks in your life?

Put simply, your big rocks are your priorities.They are the tasks, projects or goals you absolutely must accomplish.If you’re like most people you’re likely to be very busy, but how productive are you?

While successful people always find a way to keep a focus on what’s most important, the average person tends to run into one of three problems:

1. They have too many priorities. Think about it, if you have 30 priorities that are important things to do, if everything is important to you, you really have no priorities – do you?
2. They don’t or can’t differentiate the truly important priorities in their lives.
3. For any number of reasons, they let other less-important things get in the way of focusing on what really matters.

Setting priorities (your big rocks) can be hard

We all have different priorities, but before we get into how to organise them let me tell you the big rocks story.

It goes like this:

One day a teacher was speaking to a group of students.

She pulled out an large jar and set it on a table.

Then she produced about a dozen big rocks and placed them, one at a time, into the jar.

When the jar was filled to the top and no more rocks would fit inside, she asked, “Is this jar full?”

Everyone said, “Yes.”

“Really?” she asked. “Let’s see.”

She took out some gravel and dumped them in. She shook the jar, causing the pieces to fall into the spaces between the big rocks.

She asked the students again, “Is the jar full?”

Her class was catching on. “Probably not,” one of them answered.

“Very good!” she replied.

She brought out a bucket of sand and dumped the sand in and it went into all the spaces between the rocks and the gravel.

Then she asked, “Is this jar full?”

“No!” the class shouted.

“Excellent!” she replied.

Then she grabbed a jug of water and poured it in until the jar was filled to the brim.

The teacher looked intently back at the students and asked, “What is the point of this illustration?”

One student said, “You can always fit more things into your life if you really work at it.”

The teacher said “That’s true, but it’s not the point of this illustration.”

“This demonstration teaches us that if you don’t put in the big rocks first, you’ll never get them into the jar at all.

“What are the big rocks in your life?

Time with your loved ones, your faith, your education, your dreams, your career, a worthy cause, teaching or mentoring others?”

She concluded by repeating the important message: “Remember to put these big rocks in first, or you’ll never get them in at all.”

So what does this mean for you?

Big Rocks are things like your bucket list items, your non-negotiable goals, your dreams, your true desires, things you can do to make your business more successful, things that fulfill you, things you can do to make you healthier and happier.

Pebbles are the things you love to do or need to do but they aren’t crucial to your happiness, success, or fulfillment. (Projects around your house, watching your football team, mah-jong lessons, etc.)

Sand is your mundane day to day tasks. (Checking emails, walking the dog, paying bills, grocery shopping, etc.

The jar is your life, your time, your energy, your budget, your resources, etc.

By the way…You only get one jar.

These are all different for everyone

One person’s big rock may be another person’s sand.

So make sure you have these Big Rocks in your calendar or your To Do list as not only urgent, but important items otherwise you will get side tracked.

Most people get distracted by other people’s priorities, things that seem urgent but are not necessarily important.

In big rock terms they fill the jars with lots of pebbles and sand but no big rocks. None at all.

As I said… you only get one jar.

You don’t have unlimited time, endless money, untold resources or energy to do whatever you want to do and fit in everything you would like to fit into your jar.

So say yes to your big rocks first.

Put your big rocks into your jar first, then your pebbles and then your sand.

This way you have prioritised your big rocks and you will complete those before you move onto what may seem important urgent but unless important tasks.

Here’s how I put this concept into action . . .

1. I made a list of my big rocks (6 of them), my pebbles (10 of these) and my sand. 
2. I asked myself questions like, ‘What’s on my bucket list?’, ‘What are my non-negotiables in life?’, ‘What is the highest and best use of my time in my business?’.
3. I put the big rocks in my calendar first, before someone else grabbed the time. Then I started filling in the time with pebbles and sand.
   So my holidays times away with Pam for the next year are blocked out.
   The times I have set aside each week for visiting my children and my grandchildren are blocked out in my calendar and can’t be moved.
   Afternoon walk along the beach is blocked out – there’s no room to do anything else at that time of the day. And my high and business tasks like writing and recording my podcast are locked into my calendar.
   I’ve left some space for incoming or last minute pebbles and sand.
   I’ve learned that what gets scheduled gets done. What doesn’t get scheduled doesn’t get done.
4. I schedule my business Big Rocks in the morning.
   I know when I’m most efficient, and that’s first thing in the morning and last thing in the afternoon.
   I know I’m not as efficient or creative in the middle of the day.
   But we are all different aren’t we?
   I’ve also learned the principal of getting the important tasks done first thing in the morning.
   Then I’ve got them done because things always pop up during the day.
5. I’ve learned to ask myself “Is this a big rock?”
   When I need to decide how best to spend my time, energy or money I ask myself this important question – “Is this a Big Rock?”
   If it is, I make sure I find time to put it in the jar.

This concept is so simple and yet so profound.

I learned it from Steven Covey, author of 7 Habits of Highly Effective People  who taught me difference between being busy and being productive.

It’s not about getting more stuff done.

It’s about getting your most important things done.

So my question to you is…

What are your big rocks in your life, your career, your relationships, your wealth, your health?

For each of these big rocks, are they in place?

Are you putting them in your jar first?

If not, are you working to get them in place?

Or have you neglected them?

If you don’t consciously work on your big rocks, you are never going to get to them.

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 Article courtesy of Michael Yardney’s Property Update.